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Getting a Divorce? Keep Your Personal Business off Social Media

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Today, social media is a part of nearly every facet of our lives. Did it really happen if you didn’t post it? Unfortunately, this activity has lead to some very unsuccessful outcomes for many divorcing spouses. Sounding off to the world about your spouse and your marriage during a separation or divorce can have costly consequences. We frequently see examples of this at Mejias, Milgrim & Alvarado when handling the legalities of a divorce. Read on for some tips on what to avoid. Attacking Your Estranged Spouse If the split wasn’t amicable, you’re likely harboring some feelings of anger, even rage. Don’t give in to your impulse to rant about it on Facebook or Twitter. This is damaging to everyone involved, especially if you have children. It can also be used against you in child custody negotiations. The court wants to see and believe that you can work together and not disparage one another to the kids. Those angry posts may convince the judge otherwise. Sharing Too Muc...

The long history of marriage is filled with legal and moral battles

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This past month, cities nationwide celebrated the one-year anniversary of the U.S. Supreme Court ruling that state-level bans on same-sex marriage are unconstitutional. In honor of that anniversary, and the gains our country has made towards participating in open conversations regarding LGBTQ, I wanted to share the evolution of marriage. Marriage can be a joyful union filled with love and respect, as much as it can be a political tool, business tactic or method of survival. Up until the 12th century, marriage was a system of economic and diplomatic tools meant to establish power structures. With the turn of the 12th century, we saw the first formalized marriages where the couple’s consent was more important than family approval, though the bride’s consent was still not valued more than the groom’s consent. Couples were required to give their verbal consent and marriage was not considered finalized until the couple consummated, thus setting the foundation of the ...

Top Ten Legal Eagles - David L. Mejias is Divorce, Child, Family & Matrimonial Lawyer

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As a general area of practice, family law is as personal as it gets. It requires serving clients when they are at their most vulnerable. An attorney who can bring about resolution while maintaining personal sympathy for the parties involved makes for success. Long before he became a three-term Nassau county legislator, long before he started the firm of Mejias Milgrim & Alvarado, Dave Mejias’ early childhood shaped who he would become. The loss of his father was an unforgettable tragedy—the injustice of which still informs his practice today. Mejias has been cited as saying that for him, the business of law is personal. It is this principle that distinguishes his conduct in this area of practice.

Ex-Nassau Pol David Mejias’ Theft Charges Dropped

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A Nassau County judge dismissed Monday charges that had been filed against a former lawmaker who was accused of stealing a pocketbook from his ex-girlfriend’s East Garden City home three months ago. David Mejias, a county legislator and one-time congressional candidate, had initially pleaded not guilty to charges of grand larceny and criminal possession of stolen property. Prosecutors said that the 35-year-old woman did not want to pursue the case, prompting Judge Douglas Lerose to reduce the felony charges to misdemeanors and then dismiss them, according to reports and court documents. The judge also vacated a restraining order for Mejias to stay away from the woman. “I am grateful that these outlandish charges have been dismissed,” Mejias said in a statement. “There was never any truth to the charges and as an attorney I appreciate that the legal system worked and the truth has prevailed.” Police had arrested the 44-year-old Glen Cove-based attorney after he was accused ...

Charges Dropped Against Ex-Nassau Pol Mejias

Criminal charges have been dropped against former Nassau County Legis. David Mejias, who was accused of stalking his ex-girlfriend while running for a New York State Senate seat last September. Stalking and menacing charges were dismissed in December while a reckless endangerment charge was dropped last Friday, according to Queens prosecutors who were appointed to handle the politically explosive case in Nassau County court. “The charges were completely dismissed, I have been vindicated,” said Mejias, a divorce attorney with Glen Cove-based Mejias Milgrim & Alvarado, P.C. “The system works.” The 39-year-old Farmingdale resident was trying to unseat state Sen. Kemp Hannon (R-Garden City) when he was arrested. Francesca Carlow went on to win the Democratic primary after Mejias dropped out of the race. Hannon was re-elected in the general election. Oscar Michelen, Mejias’ Mineola-based defense attorney, said the charges were “blown out of proportion.” He said Mej...

Lawyer David Mejias Can Teach Us About Community

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Who is the Real David Mejias?   Attorney David Mejias knows first hand the struggles of life and the innate tenacity that helps people succeed. He was born to politically exiled Cuban parents, and their struggles of trying to rebuild their lives while instilling a sense of gratefulness and pride for the opportunities they were given as American citizens. David’s Cuban heritage made him the target of bullies throughout his life. These life long struggles made David conscious of the theory that all men are created equal and should not be judged lest they be judged themselves. After graduating from SUNY Albany for his bachelor studies, David gained entrance to the esteemed Fordham Law School; he graduated at the top of his class with exceptional accolades and went on to pass the New York State Bar examination and began working towards making a difference in the legal arena. David Mejias’ Work Against Domestic Violence Attorney David Mejias favors public office...

Dave Mejias

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Dave Mejias has a reputation for quality and excellence. When it comes to personal injury domestic violence cases, there isn’t anyone better in the greater Long island ares. Here are just a couple reasons why: Superior Business Ethics When Mejias started his own law firm, he did so with the intention of not only hiring the best lawyers in the business, but making sure that accountability was at the forefront of his business model. Mejias has lived up to this promise. Clients are always satisfied with the results. Mejias’ superior business ethics was a major reason he was elected to the Nassau County Legislature. Voters knew they could trust his expertise and good judgement. Since being elected, he’s fought for what he and his constituents believe is right, often making powerful foes in the process. Still, he always held firm, and he refused to compromise his ethics. Mejias has vowed to continue to fight for the people his serves, and so he’s working hard to w...